I think God uses people , I mean not the lucky blessed ones , I mean the cursed the unlucky ones ,the ugly , the retarded , the poor , the sick , the dead , so that they would be tools of inspiration for healthy yet spoiled people that are miserable , like they would be the situation where people would tell the spoiled and miserable people “Look at those unfortunate ones or look at those less than you as oppose to those above you “ , or in the case of the dead , they’ll be using those whose close one died so that they can be a better someone who would serve the world when they grow up , like being a great children’s teacher , her sad past made her this way because let’s say her mother passed away when she was 6 and she went to boarding school where nuns treated her badly and her father remarried a cold and cruel step wife , now it’s as if God used her mother by killing her so that this person would be a wonderful children’s teacher one day that teaches children and inspires them. In the case of those who are sick it’s as if God uses them so that they would make the healthy feel better about themselves , and the examples go on on how God uses some people to make other people better /happier ..etc .
This is what a very close arab friend told me , (thank God i don't live in the arab world or middle east )
she's like , "It sucks being in the Arab world because :
1) If you embaress yourself once , you are always looked at as an embaressment (people don't see you as being more cautious and careful in what you do or say ) , people just look at you and laugh .
2) In the middle east the Arab countries are very small ,so being there everyone knows everyone and they know alot of information through gossip about other people /some people
3) People don't leave you alone , no matter how boring your life is , they still want to interfere , make fun , stick thier nose threw other people's life and buisness.
4) It's a crime to be yourself , you should be fake and be like the rest , even when you don't agree with thier opinions / sense of style , otherwise you''ll be labeled ":weird " or something is wrong with you .
5) There is always this superior look , of " i am better than you / the rest ".
6) You shouldn't have an inner child , after a certain age , otherwise you'll get those looks on why are you happy or why do you let yourself be free ?
7 ) You'll always have the gossip and the dirt on other people , especially when being with jealous / mean women .
8)You have to think 100 times before sending anything on facebook , since people misread others , and you have to put yourself in other people's point of view before sending something on facebook , even when what you want to send is a joke or something funny or simple , that's why you see many people don't post things on thier walls ,
9 ) people can't stop judging others
10) If something good happens to the people /country people ALWAYS DIS IT , talk badly about it , ruin it , till the country is back to it's old self .
11) Everyone is on the internet , no matter how hard you try to be someone else or be annonymous there is always someone / some people who find out who you are and tell the rest .
It''s really ironic how in the Arab world people claim that they don't like to read yet you see many intellectuals and many people who ''know it all '' and talk about various subjects and most importantly many BLOGS and many readers to those blogs , if arab people don't like to read where do they find all this information to talk about and show off ?! (unless they read books secretly )
If beauty , style and fashion is important in an Arab woman's life , then why do these women like to hang out in restaurants and cafes almost all the time . why is food very important to Arab people , i f being Thin = being on fashion shouldn't these women only eat healthhy food in their home?!
I don't know why people like to keep calenders on thier desks , they will be so happy and eager to put them on thier desk. Calenders just show how a year pass by SO QUICKLY!. One can always have a daily planner/diary , to write on instead of a calender , just a thought.
You still want a calender ? , here is one !
or what's left of it
I wonder why do some have clean , neat and tidy house as oppose to others, when some of those with tidy and neat house don't have a maid in thier house ?!,and why are some houses dirty and untidy that you'll find cocoroaches and flying insects in them , when they aren't poor nor rich they are people of average income , but a house style of those below average .?
I am begining to think that God doesn't like ALL the ugly people he created (cut me the crap of this is "nonsense" ), because we all know that Beauty = self -Love , if you look good you feel good and you like youself more . There is no point of being ugly except self-loathing and feeling inferior , and i am 100 percent with those who want to do plastic surgury , and also cut me the crap of " This is God's creation " , sometimes God's creation isn't perfect , otherwise there wont be ugly , retarded , inferior people around . If you drew a painting and the painting was the kind that everyone agrees is pretty , you as well , wouldn't you love it ?, but if it was ugly you'll hate it , and same goes wilh people (aside from being jealous and hating a girl because she's pretty , you'd rather have her looks , like you do like the way she looks ) . "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder " , well some people don't see very well , because no on can see beauty in an ugly person (physcially ugly ).
Perhaps people don't understand some people that's why they hate them or don't like them and not that some people don't understand people , or perhaps people don't understand some peoople and some people don't understand people .
Sometimes people ask questions because they want re confirmation on what they already know , so not all questions are based on one being stupid , like a sexy woman asking her husband "Do i look fat in this " , he tells her " no you look stunning" , she already knows that .
